love is the strongest and most fulfilling emotion possible.
it lets you share your goal, your desires, your experiences
it lets you share your life with someone
it lets you be yourself with someone who will always support you
it lets you speaks your innermost feelings to someone who understand you.
it lets you feel tenderness and warmth-a wholeness that avoids loneliness
love lets you feel complete
but in order to have a lasting love relationship
you must make a strong commitment to each other and love
and you must do and feel everything within
your mind and body to make this commitment work
you must be happy with yourself
and you must understand yourself before you can expect someone else
to be happy with you or to understand you
you must be honest about yourself
and each other at all times
and not hold any feelings back
you must accept each other the way you are
and not try to change each other
you must be free to grow as individuals
yet share your life as one
but not live your life through each other
you must follow your own principles and morals
and not follow what societal role tell you to do
you must believe that men and women are equal
and that neither person should be made
to feel inferior in anyways
in order to have a lasting love relationship
you must be together always in your heart
but not necessarily always in your activities
you must be proud of each other and love
and not be ashamed to show your sensitive feelings
you must treat everyday spent with each other
as special and not take each other
or your love forgranted
you must spend time talking with each other
everyday and not be too busy with outside events
that you are too tired for each other
you must understand each other moods and feelings
and not hurt each other intentionally
but if your frustrations are taken out on each other
you must both realize that it is not a personal attack
you must be passionate with each other often
and not get into boring pattern
you must continue to have fun and excitement with each other
and not be afraid to try new things
you must always work at love
and your love relationship
and not forget how important this relationship is
or what you would fee like without it
love is the strongest and most fulfilling emotion possible
if you commit yourself to love
love can last forever
if you want it to and i do
Sometimes it’s better not to talk about things that really hurts you. Pretend that it never happened, pretend that you’re okay. My life revolved in the office and in the four corners of my room. Sometimes I would go out and watch movie alone, or spend my time at starbucks, make my time useful. The best thing that I realized out of it was that I could stand up on my own and I could handle my life even without Mr. Big. I learned to shop and enjoy my time even if I’m alone. But I can’t ignore the fact that sometimes I missed him badly. (more…)
I don’t know why I can’t find the passion to write when I’m happy . I have something in mind to share but I can’t put the words into writing. But when I’m hurting, words just flow when I type.
Its been months and months I have not written something here. There are a lot of things worth of sharing. I could make use the reason that I don’t have a computer at home. I think its valid, but you could find a lot of ways if you really want something. right?
For six months I have not updated anything about MR. BIG. The big part of my life. Have I totally moved on? Am I still hurting? Do I still Love him? Have I ever get a chance to find somebody else? How’s my life? A lot of questions that left un-answered..
